Today I was sharing with a friend about a Coldplay concert I saw a few years ago. On that particular trip, I drove across the state of Oregon alone. Oregon is an absolutely beautiful wonder of natural scenery. You drive for miles and never see a sign of civilization other than the road you travel on. I remember the shadows of the trees making stripes of dark and light that flashed over my car in time with the music pounding from my speakers. Later, before the concert, I remember icy beer in a plastic cup, cool grass under bare feet, an old quilt for a comforting seat and the smell of flowing fresh water, barbecue chicken and a hint of outhouse : ). All of this I savored before the music even began, and when it did begin it was wonderful.
Sadly, no one was with me along the beautiful drive and the friends I met at the concert are long gone out of my life. I was wistful for a moment thinking that I have no one to share the savory memories with. Then, I began to feel that sense of presence in my heart and the familiar voice impressed on my consciousness, "I was there." Suddenly, I looked over the memories again, seeing myself in the car, on the grass, waving my hands to the music, driving home again late at night in the dark--with God as my companion. I remembered that he made the beautiful Oregon landscape according to His excellent taste. I remembered that He was responsible for the grass, the water, the music and even the beer. Sharing the memory with Him and knowing He was there, made everything seem even more special--like a precious gift He shared with me.
There are so many other experiences I've had in my life that I have closed up and put away out of my accessible thoughts because the people I was with at the time have died or are in some way lost to me. Thinking of them makes me sad and so I've discarded the whole memory. Today, I realized that I can have all of those memories back with renewed beauty and poignancy when I remember that God was there with me, and in fact, He was the architect of the whole experience. My life just became so much richer and less lonely.
I write this to go under the topic of "finishing well," because I realize that seeing your life in terms of a race for and with and toward God, means seeing Him and acknowledging His presence along every road you've traveled. We know that He has always been with us, but giving Him presence in our thoughts and memories, gives a hint of the importance of His life to our lives. Just His being there through all our days, makes those days part of the race, and hence, part of His kingdom--including even our smallest experiences. Finishing well, means understanding that He is with us at the beginning, at the present until the end.
Isn't He good? This revelation brings me such joy and peace right now! I look forward to thinking about it more in the future!
Monday, January 3, 2011
Sunday, January 2, 2011
Dear Mom
Dear Mom,
I watched you finish your race. Through the 22 years that I knew you, I watched you grow and change continually. Every year, you spent more time in the Word of God and every year, you spent more time helping others. You weathered hard times, managed the impossible and your character grew. You wrote books, music and started businesses. You were a loving pastor, laughing and crying with people, staying up all night counseling through tough times, loving them in birth, marriage and even death. You started churches, held conferences and traveled the world in Jesus' name. You were a visionary, preaching ideas well ahead of your time and bravely bearing criticism as it came on all sides. You ran an excellent race, you fought a good fight, you kept the faith.
You lived life vibrantly as if there were not enough time in each day to do everything you wanted to do and indeed, your time was shorter than we all knew. The month before cancer took your life, you constantly bore witness to your faith and hope in Jesus and spread it to everyone you saw, encouraging them to live in love, even when you were dying in pain. When the end comes and medications, pain and fear break down our inhibitions, many people are helpless to keep any darkness they have inside at bay. But your words got better, more encouraging, more helpful, more kind.
When you died, I knew nothing could be better for you, but we were left heart broken. Even more than losing a mom, a mentor, a pastor and friend, we lost your dreams. You were one of the craziest dreamers I have known. You wanted to start businesses, publishing companies, drug rehabilitation centers, orphanages. You had plans for a Bible school, a ministry school and a prophetic training center. You sounded assured that you would own a plane someday and use it to fly ministries around the world and to bring medical supplies to Africa. You weren't crazy, you just knew that nothing was impossible.
For each of us who spent personal time with you, we received the gift of your crazy dreams for our lives. You threw light on people's hidden strengths and helped them to dream for themselves. You believed I would be a great author, an artist, a song writer and you said I would probably be a great attorney or judge if I wanted to be. I wish that I believed in myself half as much as you believed in me, and some days, I would give anything to hear those words of crazy vision spoken over me again.
You had no fear of dreams. Most of us are afraid to believe we'll do anything but just get through life without much suffering. It seems foolish or even arrogant to imagine ourselves accomplishing significant achievements just like children imagining themselves to be kings, princesses or even rock stars. We all want to believe, but we don't really--and we make fun of those who do. But since you were my mom, I believed you could do anything. So the death of your dreams was as great a loss as the death of my best friend.
As much as you did in your life, you still always had a great "someday" where your plans would succeed, finances would flow and your dreams would manifest in reality. You poured your heart into people in hope that they would become their best selves and also achieve their dreams. After you died, your people scattered, your plans eroded away and many things devolved back to the sad way they were before you touched them. Now very little remains of your life's work except the memory and inspiration of your life that lives in me.
I remember the sad day that my husband and I took boxes and boxes of your books to the dump. We were unable to store them anymore and had run out of ideas of places to send them or ways they could be used. As Ben dropped all your precious words and ideas into the piles of stinking garbage, I sat in the car and cried, whispering apologies to you, and praying to God that all your work may some how not be wasted.
Now when I look at my life and my future I am both inspired and discouraged by what happened at the end of your race. I look at how much you were able to accomplish, your endless energy, your commitment to the kingdom of God and your life abundant with love for people, and I want more than anything to be just like you! But then bitterly, I find myself looking at all your hopes and all your dreams that have turned to ashes, and I wonder if one as hard working and full of faith as you could work for years and barely begin to reach her dreams, how could someone like me dare to hope for a beautiful "someday" where my life makes a real difference and changes history?
I know you would say it was all worth it. You used to talk about passing on the torch, saying that you didn't care if you were the one who leaped over the walls of the kingdom, or if you were one of the people that others stepped on so that they could get over the wall. You would say we are all in the same race just as we are all part of the body of Christ. To me, it looks like your torch got thrown away, but you would say that you were proud to have born it as long as you did and that you just passed it on. Part of me cries out, "Not good enough!" You should have received more in this life for your faith. There should have been cheering crowds at the end of your race. The light of your torch should have multiplied, not disappeared.
Did you finish well? Tragically, your dreams didn't come true and your work has been largely forgotten. Yet, you finished as you lived, in a consistent step toward being with and like Christ. I must conclude from your life that finishing well does not necessarily mean that you receive the physical manifestations of your dreams and visions, but that you live as if all things are possible and that all things will be accomplished in Christ whether in this life or beyond. While you lived, you did fight the good fight, you did finish the race, you did keep the faith. And I guess that is all that really matters.
I watched you finish your race. Through the 22 years that I knew you, I watched you grow and change continually. Every year, you spent more time in the Word of God and every year, you spent more time helping others. You weathered hard times, managed the impossible and your character grew. You wrote books, music and started businesses. You were a loving pastor, laughing and crying with people, staying up all night counseling through tough times, loving them in birth, marriage and even death. You started churches, held conferences and traveled the world in Jesus' name. You were a visionary, preaching ideas well ahead of your time and bravely bearing criticism as it came on all sides. You ran an excellent race, you fought a good fight, you kept the faith.
You lived life vibrantly as if there were not enough time in each day to do everything you wanted to do and indeed, your time was shorter than we all knew. The month before cancer took your life, you constantly bore witness to your faith and hope in Jesus and spread it to everyone you saw, encouraging them to live in love, even when you were dying in pain. When the end comes and medications, pain and fear break down our inhibitions, many people are helpless to keep any darkness they have inside at bay. But your words got better, more encouraging, more helpful, more kind.
When you died, I knew nothing could be better for you, but we were left heart broken. Even more than losing a mom, a mentor, a pastor and friend, we lost your dreams. You were one of the craziest dreamers I have known. You wanted to start businesses, publishing companies, drug rehabilitation centers, orphanages. You had plans for a Bible school, a ministry school and a prophetic training center. You sounded assured that you would own a plane someday and use it to fly ministries around the world and to bring medical supplies to Africa. You weren't crazy, you just knew that nothing was impossible.
For each of us who spent personal time with you, we received the gift of your crazy dreams for our lives. You threw light on people's hidden strengths and helped them to dream for themselves. You believed I would be a great author, an artist, a song writer and you said I would probably be a great attorney or judge if I wanted to be. I wish that I believed in myself half as much as you believed in me, and some days, I would give anything to hear those words of crazy vision spoken over me again.
You had no fear of dreams. Most of us are afraid to believe we'll do anything but just get through life without much suffering. It seems foolish or even arrogant to imagine ourselves accomplishing significant achievements just like children imagining themselves to be kings, princesses or even rock stars. We all want to believe, but we don't really--and we make fun of those who do. But since you were my mom, I believed you could do anything. So the death of your dreams was as great a loss as the death of my best friend.
As much as you did in your life, you still always had a great "someday" where your plans would succeed, finances would flow and your dreams would manifest in reality. You poured your heart into people in hope that they would become their best selves and also achieve their dreams. After you died, your people scattered, your plans eroded away and many things devolved back to the sad way they were before you touched them. Now very little remains of your life's work except the memory and inspiration of your life that lives in me.
I remember the sad day that my husband and I took boxes and boxes of your books to the dump. We were unable to store them anymore and had run out of ideas of places to send them or ways they could be used. As Ben dropped all your precious words and ideas into the piles of stinking garbage, I sat in the car and cried, whispering apologies to you, and praying to God that all your work may some how not be wasted.
Now when I look at my life and my future I am both inspired and discouraged by what happened at the end of your race. I look at how much you were able to accomplish, your endless energy, your commitment to the kingdom of God and your life abundant with love for people, and I want more than anything to be just like you! But then bitterly, I find myself looking at all your hopes and all your dreams that have turned to ashes, and I wonder if one as hard working and full of faith as you could work for years and barely begin to reach her dreams, how could someone like me dare to hope for a beautiful "someday" where my life makes a real difference and changes history?
I know you would say it was all worth it. You used to talk about passing on the torch, saying that you didn't care if you were the one who leaped over the walls of the kingdom, or if you were one of the people that others stepped on so that they could get over the wall. You would say we are all in the same race just as we are all part of the body of Christ. To me, it looks like your torch got thrown away, but you would say that you were proud to have born it as long as you did and that you just passed it on. Part of me cries out, "Not good enough!" You should have received more in this life for your faith. There should have been cheering crowds at the end of your race. The light of your torch should have multiplied, not disappeared.
Did you finish well? Tragically, your dreams didn't come true and your work has been largely forgotten. Yet, you finished as you lived, in a consistent step toward being with and like Christ. I must conclude from your life that finishing well does not necessarily mean that you receive the physical manifestations of your dreams and visions, but that you live as if all things are possible and that all things will be accomplished in Christ whether in this life or beyond. While you lived, you did fight the good fight, you did finish the race, you did keep the faith. And I guess that is all that really matters.
Sunday, December 12, 2010
My Race
Since Jesus broke into my selfish half-life of sadness and made me believe that I was born for a purpose, I have believed that my life belongs to Him and that if I trust Him and continually pursue Him, I will continue to grow in wisdom, love and holiness throughout the length of my life. I dream of my future--"confident of this very thing, that He who has begun a good work, will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ (Phil 1:6.)" I know that if I stand for Him and run with Him then at the end of my life, I will be able to say as Paul said, "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith(2 Tim 4:7.)"
Throughout each year, I collect my dreams, catalog my strengths, look for open doors that I could burst through into the destiny that most assuredly awaits me around the next corner. That destiny I discover will lead to a life of continuous inspiration exponentially hurtling toward a glorious completion that ends my life with "Well done good and faithful servant; enter into my rest (Matt 25:23.)" However, as we usually don't go bursting into destinies or hurtling into much of glorious anything, it seems that most people don't usually cross their finish lines of life in flashes of light among cheering crowds. So what does it really look like to finish the race?
I turned thirty last year. Whatever I am supposed to be doing with my life, whatever I will be when I grow up, whatever "destiny" awaits me, should be starting any day now. I believe in my dreams and I hold on to them, but they still exist out there somewhere in the unreachable "someday." And I panic a little when I think that if my "someday" doesn't come, when I get to the end of my race, I'll realize it never came and I never began the race which I was going to gloriously run and finish. How tragic it would be to realize that not only did you not win the race, you never began.
Right now my race consists of taking care of my family, loving my friends, serving my church body, knowing God more through His Word, being an example of the light and love of Christ wherever I can and looking for opportunities to do good wherever I can. This happens everyday while I go to the store, take the kids to school, greet customers at work and all those other little things. But its also more than that. My race also means believing. I race to believe all things are possible, all things work together for good and that all things are found in Him, completed in Him, for Him and by Him (Matt 19:26, Rom 8:28, Phil 3:8, Rom 11:36.)
While I am inspired to run and believe in this way, the sum total of these things hardly seems like a glorious destiny. I wish that I was following a more focused passion; a calling or set of steps that leads to a direct result--something that feels like a race with a charted course and ultimate reward.
But this is my race. If the current course doesn't look the way I want it to, I wonder how the end will look? What does a well run race look like in today's world? Do we have to go on mission trips, become pastors of large churches, start revivals, write inspirational books, heal multitudes, be martyred? For all those Christians who have lived a life of faith, what happens to them in their final years? Are they more righteous, more full of love, closer to Christ?
The purpose of this blog is for me to think about, learn about and write about the idea of "finishing the race," in hopes that I can live my life on purpose, "pressing on toward the mark of the high calling of Jesus Christ.(Phil 3:14)" I hope to study what the Bible says about "finishing well," along with chatting with older Christians about their races, and reading biographies of Christians who have"finished well."
If you are reading this, I hope you'll be patient with me as I sort through ideas and piece together conclusions. Since this will be a tool to work out ideas, I'm going to write often and without fear of sounding good or making sense. Along with your understanding I'd be pleased to have your thoughts and comments.
Throughout each year, I collect my dreams, catalog my strengths, look for open doors that I could burst through into the destiny that most assuredly awaits me around the next corner. That destiny I discover will lead to a life of continuous inspiration exponentially hurtling toward a glorious completion that ends my life with "Well done good and faithful servant; enter into my rest (Matt 25:23.)" However, as we usually don't go bursting into destinies or hurtling into much of glorious anything, it seems that most people don't usually cross their finish lines of life in flashes of light among cheering crowds. So what does it really look like to finish the race?
I turned thirty last year. Whatever I am supposed to be doing with my life, whatever I will be when I grow up, whatever "destiny" awaits me, should be starting any day now. I believe in my dreams and I hold on to them, but they still exist out there somewhere in the unreachable "someday." And I panic a little when I think that if my "someday" doesn't come, when I get to the end of my race, I'll realize it never came and I never began the race which I was going to gloriously run and finish. How tragic it would be to realize that not only did you not win the race, you never began.
Right now my race consists of taking care of my family, loving my friends, serving my church body, knowing God more through His Word, being an example of the light and love of Christ wherever I can and looking for opportunities to do good wherever I can. This happens everyday while I go to the store, take the kids to school, greet customers at work and all those other little things. But its also more than that. My race also means believing. I race to believe all things are possible, all things work together for good and that all things are found in Him, completed in Him, for Him and by Him (Matt 19:26, Rom 8:28, Phil 3:8, Rom 11:36.)
While I am inspired to run and believe in this way, the sum total of these things hardly seems like a glorious destiny. I wish that I was following a more focused passion; a calling or set of steps that leads to a direct result--something that feels like a race with a charted course and ultimate reward.
But this is my race. If the current course doesn't look the way I want it to, I wonder how the end will look? What does a well run race look like in today's world? Do we have to go on mission trips, become pastors of large churches, start revivals, write inspirational books, heal multitudes, be martyred? For all those Christians who have lived a life of faith, what happens to them in their final years? Are they more righteous, more full of love, closer to Christ?
The purpose of this blog is for me to think about, learn about and write about the idea of "finishing the race," in hopes that I can live my life on purpose, "pressing on toward the mark of the high calling of Jesus Christ.(Phil 3:14)" I hope to study what the Bible says about "finishing well," along with chatting with older Christians about their races, and reading biographies of Christians who have"finished well."
If you are reading this, I hope you'll be patient with me as I sort through ideas and piece together conclusions. Since this will be a tool to work out ideas, I'm going to write often and without fear of sounding good or making sense. Along with your understanding I'd be pleased to have your thoughts and comments.
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